You are mistaking her own need to do the accounting on the costs of her rape with your idea of…
Robert Lopez

For someone so quick to defend against judgement, you seem a bit hasty to judge an earnest philosophical response. I wasn’t judging her or even mean-spirited, just pointing out my concerns with the implications of making a balance sheet. Maybe she herself will eventually find it unsatisfactory as do I.

The Karpman drama triangle is a serious trap for victims of abuse, and by jumping on the bandwagon as “rescuer” and labeling me a “prosecutor” you only reinforce her status as “victim” instead of empowered survivor.

And, no, I’m not tone deaf either. Just consciously pointing out a concern with the act of making a balance sheet out of something much more serious than numbers.

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