PinnedMember-onlyHow a Priest Drove Me Out of the Catholic ChurchBy the Time I Was 18 Years Old — My family was Catholic, and my parents were good Catholics. In our Washington Heights apartment, they hosted priests for drinks and dinner, were on the annual bazaar committee, and belonged to the various societies and clubs that were adjunct to the church and the school. …Catholic3 min readCatholic3 min read
PinnedHow a Priest Drove Me Out of the Catholic Church (Followup)A religious response and a follow-up story — One of my most read posts, How a Priest Drove Me Out of the Catholic Church elicited just one comment, but it was a doozy. “I must ask, was your faith so weak that you let a single priest drive you out of the Church?” My answer was “Yes”. I…Church3 min readChurch3 min read
PinnedMember-onlyWhy I Put My Recovering Alcoholic Status Out ThereIt’s part of getting old — When I first got sober, my biggest fear was being shunned because I couldn’t get boozed up. Luckily I have other vices and I just substituted my cigar habit for my drinking habit and that seemed to calm the social and business waters. So as a 34-year-old running a business…Life Lessons2 min readLife Lessons2 min read
PinnedMember-onlyMy Bone Marrow Transplant 0-DayAnd a Bad Reaction to Rabbit Blood! — Thus came the big day, Day Zero on the transplant calendar. This is your day of rebirth (of your bone marrow and blood system). It should be simple. You get a blood transfusion. That’s all. The rest of this recollection is based on notes from my sister, who was in…Bone Marrow Transplant2 min readBone Marrow Transplant2 min read
PinnedMember-onlyComplications: The Story of My HeartWhat I learned about My Heart 50 years after a First Grade Incident — My first neighborhood was Washington Heights, New York City, When I was six, I went to school for the first time. …Heart Attack4 min readHeart Attack4 min read
5 days agoMember-onlyIt’s Peaceful at 2:30 AM (as I write this)I had a bowl of chili for dinner, and then, bored with tv, I took a short nap at 6:30 pm. I woke up at 2 am, bright awake. The rest of the world, not so much. I did what I always do when it’s cold, but with no wind…Insomnia2 min readInsomnia2 min read
Jan 13Member-onlyFast Tracking Your Start-Up Service BusinessI speak from experience. Fast-tracking a service business is a hard job, but it is made easier by following these steps: Know what you’re selling. Seriously, make it your life’s direction. Know your market. Who needs what you’re selling? Have a sample ready. You can’t sell without “show and tell.” …Startup Lessons2 min readStartup Lessons2 min read
Jan 10Member-only18 “Fabulous” Years of Ebaying…And Living to Tell the Tale It started in 2004. Things were a little tight in my business, so I decided to pay myself by selling something on eBay. I picked out a slightly obsolete camera we didn’t need and sold it for four or 500 bucks. “Hmm,” I thought.”…E Bay1 min readE Bay1 min read
Jan 9Member-only“Make Tribute Videos” Book Out Now! — Make Tribute VideosA Complete Guide to Creating Tributes to Friends, Family, CoworkersTribute Video1 min readTribute Video1 min read“Make Tribute Videos” Book Out Now! — Make Tribute Videos----
Jan 5Member-onlyThere’s No Hell Like Phone-Tree Hell“Your Call Is Important To Us”…. Liars! I decided to open a savings account this morning. I picked a bank with a generous interest rate and filled out the online form. At the end of the form, I clicked submit and got a message telling me the application could not…Phone Tree2 min readPhone Tree2 min read