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You’re not alone. And I’ll pass on some advice that helped me- stop should-ing yourself. (As in, “I should be doing laundry” or “I should be able to get the baby to stop crying” or “I should feel better.”) It takes practice, but it works. Treat yourself like a friend and offer yourself comfort instead of reprimands.

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