I have noticed much of the same! Just had a whole conversation with my husband about critics. Many people have their heart in the right place, and want to join a conversation they feel strongly about or are interested in, but may be deterred by people scolding instead of helping them understand the terminology associated with the complicated social and political atmosphere.
Sometimes I find myself not responding to posts or posting anything at all due to fear that critics will just spend their time ripping me apart, rather than just trying to understand where I’m coming from. People should not be shamed for wanting to learn and grow. The more people become aware of the real issues the better. It is those who make decisions based on others opinions, rather than their own research that worry me. We need to foster an environment where people feel safe to discover.
You were definitely tactful, and I appreciated how respectfully you approached this sensitive topic with me. Thank you. I’m always happy to connect with others who want to have educated respectful discussion about real issues.