After I broke up with my boyfriend of five years in 2014, my question was around “personal agency” and “real love” — specifically, whether someone can really love us if they see us differently (lesser and more superficially) than we see ourselves; if there is no “true” reality, then which version of “us” is real?
How Much To Give And Take In Relationships
Kris Gage

There are as many versions of ourselves as there are people who perceive us.