First of all, you aren’t ugly at all. :) And I agree with what you wrote. We guys are expected to “suck it up” and “deal with it”. Well, I’m the guy who rails against that. When I’m sad, I cry, and I feel no fucking shame about it, because I’m a human being above all and I have emotions and I’m not ashamed of them. When someone tries to harm me, I fight back, but I’d rather talk it out. I own my life and don’t blame anyone for my failures. I own my sexuality and I follow one simple rule. I don’t violate the four Cs, consent, children, corpses or chickens (animals). When I’m with a woman, I ask her what she likes and doesn’t like and I respect her choices. But above all, I want to leave the world a better place than it was when I was born.