Any suggestions on how to date organically?
Joanne Benitez

Hi Joanne!

I’m only 25, but I used to really suck with dating. I was very shy and introverted. I did not kiss a single girl in high school! I know, hard to believe.

I have literally dedicated the last seven years of my life working on my dating skills. I am no expert, but I can help.

What are your interests and hobbies? What do you like to do for fun?

What type of person are you? Outgoing? Private? In-between?

What qualities do you truly want in a male? Write down the top three.

Answer these questions truthfully (which will be incredibly hard). You have to really know who you are and what you want before you go searching for Mr. Right.

Mr. Right is subjective. Your Mr. Right will be different than your friends. Accept this and DO NOT JUDGE YOURSELF for this.

Once you have answered all the above questions, take action!

Part-take in clubs, activities, etc., based off your hobbies or the things you are interested in. There will most likely be some guys there.

If bars are not your scene because of how loud it is, go somewhere more personal. Go to more restaurants, wine tastings, coffee shops, libraries.

Go to the places you think Mr. Right may be!

Finding someone compatible nowadays is harder because of technology and online dating. It will take more effort from your part.

How bad do you want to find someone you have mutual chemistry with? How will this relationship make you feel?

The answers to those questions should be your motivation.

I know I don’t know you, but I hoped this helped!

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