The guy wanted to spank you for knocking over the bike? So what, who gives a f$&k! It wasn’t his bike! Why are total strangers barging their way into others business? It’s beyond me. But if he had said that to me I wouldn’t have been so cool. And I don’t feel this falls under harassment, just because a stranger at a coffee shop says he wants to spank you doesn’t qualify as harassment in my mind. Like you said uneducated and rude but nothing more. And I wouldn’t expect others to jump in a confrontation, if your not already aware most people are cold and uncaring in our culture. You didn’t have to say anything nasty or snap back, could you have just given him the finger and walk out and go to the bathroom in another store? I’m sorry I don’t agree with you on calling it harassment, but I also don’t agree or stick up for that nasty S.O.B either.