2 Wins 5 Losses, And Still In Love With Notre Dame
As an alumnus who proclaims #GoIrish in his Twitter profile, I’ve gotten my share of friendly abuse on social media lately, given Notre Dame’s poor won-loss record this football season.
2–5. Ha! It must be the end of the world. I must be despondent.
In truth — while Notre Dame is currently unranked in all college football polls and a respectable #25 in the Wall Street Journal’s recent inaugural ranking of U.S. colleges by academics — the Fighting Irish are still #1 in my heart.
Notre Dame football is polarizing: most people either LOVE the team (insert photo of players arm-in-arm singing the alma mater here) or DESPISE it (insert photo of Brian Kelly busting a blood vessel while screaming obscenities here). While I CRINGE at the thought of Coach Kelly’s contract extension — and realize that the university is far from perfect — I simply ENJOY watching the games.
I’ve missed seeing two of the last three. I attended the Syracuse game in New Jersey three weeks ago. Two weeks ago, I thought, “They’ll never play the NC State game in the middle of a hurricane,” so my wife and I enjoyed a matinee staged by Philadelphia Young Playwrights instead. Last Saturday, I attended a memorial Mass for my friend Pete Sgro (front and center here). I spent the day in his picturesque hometown and arrived home to more friendly abuse after the Stanford game.
To me, Notre Dame’s 2–5 record is a matter of perspective: It’s not great, but it’s not tragic.
Meanwhile, Coach Kelly, like every other football coach (even those down by 10–0 at halftime), sees a team in need of “overcoming adversity.”
Precisely. Just like those trying to survive in Aleppo.
First World-er that I am, I once survived the “adversity” of driving to South Bend in a December snowstorm with my girlfriend at my side. I thought we’d be stranded on Route 80.
Instead, we overcame the odds to arrive at the Grotto of Our Lady of Lourdes in the heart of Notre Dame’s campus at midnight. I asked my girlfriend to marry me — in the flickering candlelight, with the snow now falling gently around us — and she said, “Yes!”
Two daughters later, I returned to the campus to attend the Mendoza business school’s Executive Integral Leadership program. What a gift it was to be able to spend an entire week at Notre Dame.
I have to be honest, though. I was a bit overwhelmed — and a little wary — when I saw how the campus had changed in the more than 20 years that had intervened.
When I arrived, I stood in the midst a grand concourse lined with stately buildings that didn’t exist when I had gone to school there. I visited the law building and found that it enveloped a full-sized courtroom. I visited the science building and found an entire planetarium there.
“What a cozy bastion of white privilege,” I thought.
Then I lived and studied there for a week, and discovered:
- a diverse student body,
- a strong commitment to social justice and community volunteerism,
- thoughtful and provocative classroom discussions,
- great music and art, and
- kindness, decency and respect from students, faculty and support personnel.
Seemingly everyone I met there was in love with Notre Dame. And so, after all, am I.
The overriding theme of my executive leadership course was to appreciate the fact that to whom much is given, much is expected. It’s something I’ve thought about every day since. And it’s a spirit ever-present at my alma mater.
Something else I discovered? A crucifix in every single classroom at Notre Dame’s business school.
Imagine: An unapologetic religious symbol right there, every day, reminding future leaders about sacrifice and love… in the midst of adversity.
Notre Dame is a place of high ideals. I don’t often live up to them, but I always aspire to them. Perhaps Coach Kelly, or even the university itself, would say the same.
Because of my own failings, however, I am convinced I will see the Fighting Irish win another national football championship in my lifetime.
The talent is there; so is the will to win. So I’ll be patient.
I’m convinced I have the time because I remember something the beloved Robert Vacca taught me in Classical Greek at Notre Dame. He attributed the concept to Herodotus, and it sadly applied to the professor’s own life, just as it did to my friend Pete Sgro.
Billy Joel put it this way:
Only the good die young.
Originally published at varettoni.blogspot.com on October 19, 2016.