Making, helping, and watching; a spectrum
Once, my lover gave my morning wood relief. I didn’t wake up until she was gulping down my offering. She MADE me cum.
Once, my lover rubbed her breasts up and down my thighs while she rubbed the head of my cock all over her face until I exploded. She HELPED me cum.
Once my lover lay with her head on my chest as I masturbated. She WATCHED me cum.
Once she showed me how she masturbated until she squirted. It took a while, but I sat in a chair at the foot of the bed and WATCHED.
Once I lapped my lover’s anus while she pinched and flicked her clit until she came. I HELPED.
As far as I know, I never MADE her cum. It was always a dual effort whenever it happened. Sometimes it didn’t happen at all.
She never got angry, sometimes snuggled, sometimes left for work, and sometimes just left.
Though I’ve enjoyed the relationships I’ve had, I never thought of myself as a conquering hero with a blunt/flesh sword. I’ve always thought of myself as one half of a dance team.
I like to get blown. I like intercourse, vaginal and sometimes anal. But, like a good many men and women, I also enjoy masturbation, with or without a partner nearby.
I’ve seen most types of porn with the exception of war/death porn, and find it amusing and about as well made and believable as a Hollywood super-hero movie.
Most of the men and many of the women I’m friends with are open and honest about their sexual needs and the state of their relationships.
Maybe you hang with the wrong crowd from which you choose your mates.
I’m not sure there’s such a thing as penis envy but maybe…
Thank you for reaffirming the depths of anger some feel when it comes to their own need to be taken seriously, especially when it comes to S E X.
