I agree. Traditional patriarchy teaches those lessons, which are harmful. However, new versions of patriarchy like the current men’s rights movement attempts to keep in place domination over women while also recognizing the emotional well being of men.
However, one cannot dominate another person and be emotionally whole. Feminism solves this problem by helping everyone to empathize with women, who are still conditioned to see the world through the eyes of men.
Again, on every level of society people have a predisposition to empathize with men. The world has tried the solution of understanding men more. It’s really the only solution we have ever tried.