January 24, 2022
You make good content your channels grow. This could be writing on Medium, crating YouTube videos or TikTok. Whatever you are making needs to be great otherwise people don’t/won’t want to watch your content. It really doesn’t matter what you make or how you made it as long as it is good people will watch it. The content has to be valuable to the viewer more than what they would be doing otherwise. It doesn’t have to be the best of the best. All it has to be is you and you have to be patient with it because with time everything you have ever wanted will come to you.
Everything thing in life takes time. Getting the body you want. Dating the girl you want. Being the friend you want to be. This all takes time. If we work on it we can speed up the time it takes to get to that point but we have to work on it. A lot of people I know don’t seem to want to work on it. They would rather say we will do this or we will do that instead of taking the action to actually do it. Ideas are great don’t get me wrong but the most important thing to do is execute on the idea. Don’t just leave it in your head. There are two quotes that really stick with me. One is from Carl Jung, “People don’t have ideas, ideas have people.” The other one I do not know the source but it goes like, “Executer who fail to plan out plan planner who fault to execute.” Something like that it might be slightly wrong but you get the point. You have to take action upon the idea that strikes you because if you don’t someone else will and then you will look back years later and say, “I had that idea years ago.” That one single idea would have changed your life If you only had the courage to go after it and stick with it. A lot of us Don’t seem to follow through. This will be the first step. Follow through with the next idea for a couple of years and let me know how it goes. I have a feeling it will be better than you ever expected.
Taking time off is not a bad thing it can actually be the best thing a person can do. I think the bad thing is not getting back after you took your time off. The time off should give you time to reflect and notice what you could do better. Not to just shut off completely. This should be your time to think. Your time to grow. Your time to create the life you wish to create. We only have so much time on this planet so we might as well do what makes us happy. I enjoy writing, making YouTube videos, going to the gym, talking with girls, going on dates, hiking, meditating, selling, and many more things. I do these things because I enjoy them. I make time for what matters to me. I ensure I surround myself with people who will help me grow. I will be nice and kind to everyone but some people don’t fit the bigger picture and I am sorry to say this but it is true. We love to have fun every now and then but when it is time to work, it is time to work. Not everyone gets this. Not everyone understands the drive to want to work more, watch tv and just chill after a full day. Some people need to keep going out and surrounding themselves with people instead of being alone in their own thoughts. I think the best thing for a person to do is to be alone with their own thoughts and ideas. This is where most of the suffering comes. It comes from people's inability to sit in a room alone without outside stimulation. If more people could do this there would be a lot more happy and joyful people. I recommend giving this a shot even it is only for a week. Instead of picking up your phone, playing games, or watching Porn the next time you feel sad or lonely. Sit there and think, feel the breath, feel what you are feeling, notice them then let them pass and get along with your day. I am telling you this will be the best thing you could do with your life!
Our lives can be full of so much joy and happiness if we just allow ourselves to be happy. Yes, I said allow. I said this because it is a choice we make every day. A lot of people don’t seem to choose to be happy. They seem to sit in their sorrow hoping for things to get better. The thing about that is, things don’t get better till you get better. Once you get better everything else gets better. You have to start by making the first move. Once you make the first move things will become a lot easier and better for you. Up until that point, things will stay the same. You will keep repeating the same bad behavior you have done in the past because you don’t want to confront what is right in front of you. However, once you confront what is in front of you your life will become a lot better for you. I know this to be true because I did it myself. I confronted the things that were making me upset and holding me back. Once I did this everything became easier. I wasn’t stressed. I wasn’t angry. I wasn’t sad. I was able to live in the present moment. You can do the same thing if you are willing to give it a try. If you never try anything you will never ever change. You have start. You have to begin. You will make it though. And I know you will be better off for it!