
What is your biggest fear ?
With the large amount of talks and insights given by people coming from all the walks of life how can we still have fears ?
Everybody has fears or anxiety, it is a fact. Fortunately for us, we can overcome them by calling on our brain and our conscience to force our subconscience to behave and think differently. A lot of tricks, tips and gimmicks existed to do so, so much that we can easily feel overwhelmed by this amount of information. By the way , isn’t it funny how specialists but also average persons increasingly tend to give out advices from their own personal experience and even though we live in an increasingly individualistic society.Which is contradictory when we think of it but no so puzzling ultimately since we kind of giving advices for, afterwards, being praised and hailed which will enhance our self-esteem.
Back to the topic. As I was saying, an endless list of website , books ,webinars, podcasts and youtube channels emerged to help us to identify our deepest hidden monsters ,cope with it and eventually overcome them.
As for my part, my biggest fear is to wake up one day and do not have the ability to dare to dream anymore. I do not know for you, but I have absolutely no phobia or very serious fears of any kind(except from losing my family of course). I have read a bunch of books, listened so much talks and watched plenty of reports. Actually, I was becoming an expert in this field. This, had not any secrets for me. To be honest with you, I am dedicated to my work at school , I am a hard worker, I give my all in my work. I hope it will not sound like I am a big headed and snooty person but this is me guys.
So, as all the assiduous and careful students, I followed very carefully those advices and to my great pleasure it has work!
My fear of going blank in front of a bunch of people ? disappeared ; My nose complex ? vanished for ever.
I, finally, succeed to defeat those problems and yet something inside me was not totally in peace. I, then, realized that my new daily routine and my new life habits had helped me overcome my old fears but had also raised a totally new one. The fear of not being able to have a total and full control of myself and my feelings. Now I constantly live with the fear and the concern of losing my motivation for carrying on my path and succeed in my life. I fear of being a loser , an outsider , a nobody.
