BY CAMMI PHAM — First appeared on my personal blog The next time you are in pain, give yourself 5 minutes. Scream. Cry. Do whatever you want. Then stop at the 5 minute mark. And start turning that negative energy into actions. Some days, we are sad. Another day, we get mad. Other days, we feel jealous. Then there are times we miss someone. There are moments when we want to hurt people. …