I would differ as I actually think that men crave for sexualization although they may be surprised if they encounter it as novelty.

It is refreshing for once to read some piece of feminism that is not condescending with their gender and focus on one of the many battles that men struggle every day (not more or less but recognizing that we all struggle is important). I bet that for most men, their biggest desire is to be called “hot” or any sexual objectification, and any suggestion that women would like to have sex with them just because of their bodies. Many men go to gym and tone themselves for years to shape themselves in very desirable bodies and never get any indication of like “you are fucking hot” or “would love to have this hot piece of ass in my bed”… What a wonderful world would be not to feel like men are the only ones craving for a hot body. And that we are also “beautiful” and desired.

Men are accused of machism for sexualizing women when in reality they are doing the right thing (in my view) which is to appreciate the beauty of their counterparts (what you do in your life is just a meaningless crap since everything is a fake construct and goals nothing more than arbitrary demands of ambition but beauty is one of the few truths in life). Women do not appreciate men’s beauty, I am unsure about the reasons, and just one woman saying she is able does not speak up for the majority of them (specially when all this has been triggered by abuse). But even one woman complimenting men is a good start and maybe new generations of men live in a healthier world where women appreciate them sexually.