Fight Your Fight

Carlo Serrano
Jul 10, 2017 · 2 min read

I love Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. I love the health benefits, physical and mental challenges, and the relational connections that are made on the mats and in the gym. Through jiu jitsu I have learned how to manage my ego, work around my physical limitations, and push myself beyond my mental limits. I have competed several times. I have had seasons of training 6 days a week. However, I am not motivated by a desire to fight professionally, semi-professionally, or as an amateur. I have no desire to chase medals, compete in tournaments, or dedicate 7 days a week to training. For some in the jiu jitsu world, my worldview is blasphemy.

I don’t care.

I believe in jiu jitsu for everyone. This includes most BJJ practitioners who will NEVER compete at the highest levels. They will NEVER train more than 2–3 times a day.

Would a black belt be awesome? Sure. However, at this point in my life I’m called to be a “black belt” in leading my family, teaching, and serving. Thus, I train for me and for those I get to teach, not someone else’s preconceived notions of what a BJJ practitioner should be.

What does this have to do with life and leadership?

Bottom line: Don’t let others control your motivations. Whatever you do in life, fight YOUR fight.

Carlo Serrano

Non-profit leader, educator, consultant, and lover of Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.

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