I agree to a degree that the second producer that sent her a message, calling her a new Kutcher wife, meant no harm, and was trying to shine a spotlight on you for going against the grain. People like Kutcher are people who go against the grain. In this case, it’s the person who said “You’ll never work in this town again.” It’s the same quote that Bruce Lee got after a great fight. Bruce Lee didn’t want that scene to be filmed for a reason. It was a personal fight, just as Kunis felt oppressed for being female.
Yes, we need to recognize that everyone has different views, different perspectives, and yes, different perceptions. It does not apply just to women, it applies to all genders, sexual orientation, political beliefs, and any other biases.