On Being Treated Like a Care ObjectSeveral years ago, I took a trip to Victoria, BC, to visit a lover. One day, we decided to go out on a date. We were walking towards the…Nov 14, 2024A response icon8Nov 14, 2024A response icon8
Why Pressuring a Sex Worker to Lower Their Rates Makes You a Piece of ShitOne of the more frustrating client behaviours I encounter as an escort are the guys (and sometimes women) who try to negotiate a cheaper…Nov 8, 2024A response icon10Nov 8, 2024A response icon10
I Am Gutted at the Thought of Another Trump PresidencyI am not surprised by it, but I am absolutely horrified by the direction the world is going with another Trump presidency.Nov 8, 2024A response icon5Nov 8, 2024A response icon5
On LonelinessWe hear so much lately about a male loneliness epidemic. On closer inspection, this epidemic looks a lot more like a sexual frustration…Nov 5, 2024A response icon14Nov 5, 2024A response icon14
Do Men Really Have Higher Sex Drives or Do They Just Have Permission?I seem to have gotten mixed up in a debate inspired by articles by Simon Forkt, PhD. Despite agreeing with a fair amount of what he said, I…Oct 24, 2024A response icon13Oct 24, 2024A response icon13
The #MeToo Movement is for Sex Workers TooOne of the most painful things that I have to deal with as a sex worker is the ridiculous notion that sex workers don’t have the right to…Jun 20, 2019A response icon6Jun 20, 2019A response icon6
Published inHuman PartsAn Open Letter to the Respectable Men Who Don’t Have My BackSex work is real work, even if my clients imagine otherwiseNov 16, 2018A response icon25Nov 16, 2018A response icon25
Why Shaming Sex Workers Hurts All WomenIn North American culture today, it is common to disparage female porn stars and other female/femme sex industry workers as damaged…Nov 16, 2018A response icon13Nov 16, 2018A response icon13
