The reality is that many people do not want to be alone and they are willing to say whatever it takes to get a significant other

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Three reasons why we shouldn’t have this one-sided mindset.

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#2. I recognized who he was under the mask

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#2. I stopped using him as a fallback option

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#4. You don’t have a list of deal-breakers

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We need to start believing people when they promise us that they will never change

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#1. Their advice is skewed by their own insecurities

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My father was pessimistic about every advancement I tried to make throughout my life

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Here are the four reasons why

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Carrie Wynn

❦ Writer & Relationship Consultant on narcissism, overcoming abuse & trauma, and self-love. Contact me @ Blog: carriewynn.com Instagram: carrie_wynnmusings

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