I agree. With what you said about the guy. About honesty like the book said. But making a list of all you resent & sharing it??? Think about it. What we resent in others is a lot more about us than them. How can you resent someone’s looks? They don’t look the way they look on purpose. Would he EVER say something like that to anyone else in the world? He totally de-valued you by his statement. Wanting to feel attractive your partner is not a chick flick idea. Even using that term is kind a slam on the feelings of women. Being hurt by this is normal. His comment was petty & small. In my opinion- you are beautiful & deserve better. Just because someone got published doesn’t mean what they said to do is a good idea.