Clarissa Butelli

ut what we experience. I don’t necessarily think they don’t care, I just think they’re lost. My opinion is that the system won’t get changed because they don’t know…l them there’s lots of men like you. Unfortunately, I believe we’re responsible for our own health. These doctors aren’t gonna learn unless we talk to them. They don’t know about what we experience. I don’t necessarily think they don’t care, I just think they’re lost. My opinion is that the system won’t get changed because they don’t know about us, so we have to work past our shame and show up for ourselves.

Being emotionally healthy — secure and with strong self esteem and a sense of responsibility for your own emotions — pays dividends when it comes to sex appeal.

Maybe it’s because sex is a different act for women that it is for men. Our side of the act renders us more vulnerable, so enjoying it requires that we feel safe, which requires an emotionally healthy person.