I haven’t seen the red pill, however I don’t think that recognizing that both men and women have issues in today’s society precludes you from being a feminist. What you’re saying is a kindred spirit to the outcries of “ALL LIVES MATTER” when “black lives matter” became a thing on twitter. To recognize the suffering of one group does not disavow the suffering or issues another faces. And sure, as a female I have experienced plenty of discrimination for my gender as have many others. Everything coming out of uber in recent months is a shining example of this.