“ well, I can’t fix stupid” I appreciate you acknowledging that you are very very stupid so thank you for that.
“ I mentioned her being a mother, wife and daughter because Mr. Ramaci has all three of those things” Once again you imply that having a wife and children is what makes Ramaci’s actions repulsive. If Ramaci’s were single and childfree his choices would have been okay? What you did NOT say was “Hey Ramaci if this were your wife, if this were your daughter would you be okay with them being treated like this? I’m going go to on a limb and say you didn’t attend graduate school or your 4 year degree is from a community college.
I attended Columbia University myself. that’s how I know if these things were so trivial you almost certainly wouldn’t have brought them up three times.