Stop Hoping That Your Romantic Relationship Will Simplify.
It will not.
Often, a woman appears to test a man’s ability to remain undisturbed in his mission and truth. She tests him so that he may fully feel the freedom and depth of her love, to know that he is trusted. Her tests can take the form of dissatisfaction, trials, doubts, distractions, changes of heart on her part, or even subtle underminings of his mission.
A man should never believe that these trials will come to an end and that his life will become simpler. Instead, he should appreciate that she does all of this to feel his strength, integrity, and openness. She desires his truth and love at the deepest level. Her trials will intensify as she evolves.
The most erotic moment for a woman is the feeling that you are Shiva, the divine masculine, undisturbed, full of love, completely present, and all-encompassing.
You may not like it, but you wouldn’t want her to settle for a weak man whose happiness depends on his lover’s response.
You feel good when you’re motivated, but you don’t need to be intoxicated with words and be told that you’re doing a good job. And your girlfriend doesn’t want you to need to be nursed. In fact, that disgusts her.
A true woman will love the childlike part of you, but she will want your life to be guided by your deepest truths, not by the unhealed wounds of childhood. She wants to feel that deep within your being, you have surpassed the need for praise and million-dollar toys. She wants to feel the strength of truth emanating from you.
