…Now You’re Just Somebody That I Used To Know .
What’s that grey area in relationships where your “ex” is not really your “ex”, he’s not your potential husband, you guys are no longer friends but not at all enemies? You hardly ever see each other but when you do the relationship is casual enough for a hug and a few laughs but nerve wrecking when the conversation starts getting too real? Why are we back here, having the same old conversations or debating on why things did not work and whose to be blamed.
I’m asking this not out of rhetoric but because I genuinely do not know the status of said relationship. Also, I am not asking for a “friend” — I’m asking for ME. To all my close friends currently giving me the side eye because you think you know where I’m going with this (and who I’m referring to) — don’t worry! 🤚🏾🤚🏾🤚🏾There’s no residue here so go ahead and breathe. I am not in that sunken place anymore but I am really curious. As you know, there is still ALOT of respect on both ends but what do I refer to said person as? Someone that I used to know… 🤔🤔🤔