Maybe I've read this wrong, but does this mean that to find out what your potential beau is really like you are engaging in conversations with their friends and getting them to dish the dirt?
If you've added them on Facebook anyway, wouldn't you be able to spot pretty quickly if something wasn't adding up, in terms of for example messaging other girls etc?
And if you are talking to his friends, how can you be sure that they are not being his wingman and telling you what you want to hear?
And if they are not….well what kind of friend sparks up a conversation with an anonymous person and says, “yeah my mate Ben is an absolute shite!”
This seems to me like a long winded and flawed way of not finding out accurate information……