Ok I’m sorry but what the fuck is this?! You mention multiple times how trans are treated as not “natural, deviant, and not the norm”. Well that’s because… they are! In fact, there’s half of America (just an estimate) that think trans people are crazy and should be getting mental help not surgery. And these people have very good reason to believe this. So yeah, of course people don’t want to use cisgender, because cisgender doesn’t exist for them, it just is we as a race are.