The Reluctant Wife

Oh Shit, My Husband Wants Me To Be His Dominatrix, What Now?

You want me to what? All of a sudden after years you want me to punish you and lock your penis up? Like some sort of kinky dominatrix? I don’t think so!!!

A bit of advice for wives, females in committed relationships, and males that want their significant other to enforce chastity, indulge in kinky, distasteful sex-acts, or other things you might stick in the category of “not normal”. First there’s shock, surprise, a feeling of some sort of betrayal, maybe even disgust. Know this; After having gone thru this, it’s not as unusual as you might think. It’s also something that’s not going to go away in most cases, and maybe, just maybe it might actually be good for you and your relationship.

WTF? Why Me? I Thought We Were Normal

Okay, you’re a “normal” person, with a “normal” relationship, and a normal job, normal life, and all of a sudden your husband or significant other wants you to be some sort of fantasy dominatrix and this just is NOT going to fly. Maybe you’ve even tried it once after he nagged the crap out of you and you just felt silly/dirty/like some sort of porn-actor whatever. All you know is it didn’t feel good for you, or the thought of the whacked out fantasy just made you feel crappy in some way. It’s just not for you, you don’t want to be any part of that. It certainly doesn’t feel “sexy” or gratifying at all. You wish he would just get off it already. Maybe you…