How to ‘Meet’ a Woman

Truly meeting a woman does not mean attempting to change yourself in order to conform to what she wants. It means sinking deeper in. Falling backwards into yourself. Finding what it is that you truly desire as a man and owning it.

When a woman challenges you it is not her way of asking you to step up and let her guide the show, it is her way of reflecting to you that you are not living in integrity with yourself.

This isn’t exclusive to what is happening inside of your relationship, it can be anywhere in your life and she’ll sense it and challenge you to grow.

She is showing you exactly the place where you’re stuck, and where you need to either make a decision and move forward, feel some feelings about it, or take some time to reflect on what’s going on.

It can be a situation with work, with a friendship, with your lifestyle, whatever. Ultimately, she can sense that you are not living in right relationship with your life based on your highest potential as a man. She wants you to step up to what it is you know you can be in this world. She wants you to define what that is and step into it regardless of your fear. If she’s challenging you she doesn’t think you’re doing it. In fact, she knows you aren’t because she can feel it in her body. Trust me, it’s true.

So, the next time she’s standing in front of you challenging you remember this, she wants you to show up for yourself. Don’t take it personally, don’t make it about your relationship with her, make it about your relationship with your own life. With your own standards, goals, and values.

Maybe it’s time that you reevaluate something. Tell her, she won’t care.

Maybe you’re really really afraid and just want Mommy. Tell her, and own the vulnerability of it. She’ll feel it and come to you.

Maybe you need to quit your job. Tell her, she might be scared and afraid, but if it’s your highest desire and you know that something is pulling you onwards, she will feel it, and follow.

She wants to be led, especially into the unknown. This is what creates attraction and trust for her.

As the man or ‘masculine energy’ in the relationship it is your duty to follow your path, your mission in the world.

Trust it, and she’ll trust you. Always.