To Entertain or NOT-Family Chaos During COVID-19
During this time of chaos across the globe we have been told to practice social isolation, keep at least a 6 feet distance from others, only go out for essential items and work from home if you can.
Many may be struggling with this whole concept during COVID-19 due to some people just not taking this pandemic as being serious. When I say many I’m just not speaking globally, in your country, in your state, in your city, in your neighborhood but I’m speaking about right in your own family and household.
This whole transition has created so much chaos and conflict with family and households due to some taking it seriously and others not taking it seriously. I am sure many of you are doing your best to stay quarantined in your home and only going out for essentials.
The question becomes how do you handle family members or friends that just decide to pop up at your home like the quarantine rules do not apply to them. Do you just let them in? Do you converse with them at the door and make them back up 6 feet? Do you explain to them that you are not taking visitors at this time do the current situation?
This may sound crazy but these are conversations that are being held as I am typing this article. You would just assume that everyone is on the same page and understand what is going on. So what if the individual is your in-law, your parent, your adult children, grandchildren, etc. How are you handling this shelter in place?
Believe it or not, chaos in the home even between couples is on the rise. Individuals subject to domestic violence are at a higher risk due to the shelter in place.
How are you handling your family gatherings, birthday celebrations, funerals, graduations, and anniversaries? All of these are thoughts and important to think about and it may be a good idea to start preparing your mind and planning ahead for virtual gatherings until it is safe.
There is so much going on during this time but the most important thing to remember is to keep you and your family safe. Don’t feel guilty for sticking with your gut and following your safety plan of action put in place. It is okay to explain to others that you are quarantining and staying safe at this time and no you do not have to entertain the chaos.
