IT从业人员互相瞧不上太常见了,可以参见程序员鄙视链,但是慢慢地工作一两年,让我知道,其实这并没有什么卵用. Be Kind HN 上的推荐文章, 引用最后几段,希望在以后的工作中,也能做到: Being kind isn’t the same as being nice. It isn’t about superficial praise. It doesn’t mean dulling your opinions. And it shouldn’t diminish the passion with which you present them. 与人为善并不是要你变得多么和善, 也不是让你阿谀奉承, 与人为善并不会让你放弃自己的原则, 放弃自己的追求和激情. Being kind is fundamentally about taking responsibility for your impact on the people around you. It requires you be mindful of their feelings and considerate of the way your presence affects them.