Chloe Miller
4 min readDec 29, 2015

Spa day — with your man, actually!

Contrary to what many may think, going to a spa is not just a woman thing. Actually, going with a boyfriend or a husband, and relaxing together at a spa will be a very positive experience for both of you, and your relationship. You’ll have the opportunity to talk quietly and relax, while receiving expert massage, exfoliation and beauty treatments.

Together at a spa

Due to busy everyday lives, you and your partner are probably very stressed out. So there is nothing better in order to be radiant and in a good physical and emotional state, then a get together at a spa.There are even some spas that offer special packages for couples. Your partner might think at first that spas are only reserved for ladies, but that could not be further from the truth.

IDKmen suggests some top destinations with spas that every lady will just love to visit.

Facials

Taking care of the skin on the face is equally important for both men and women, and that is one of the reasons why couple spa beauty treatments usually include facials in their offers. Microdermabrasion is not solely for women and it will definitely not make someone less of a man. Even though it is thicker, male skin can be very sensitive too, due to all the shaving and irritation, which can cause premature aging. This is why beauty treatments and facials are simple and sensible solutions, and basic health care when it comes to regeneration and fresh-looking skin.

Manicure and pedicure

Another treatment which is usually presented to the couples is a manicure and pedicure. Undoubtedly, nails speak volumes about the person and his/her personal hygiene. Taking care of your appearance while sitting together all cozy and relaxed at a spa center, could only deepen the bond that you and your partner already share. It is no shame for a man to have his nails neat and nice — it is the core of personal grooming.

Massage session

There is nothing better to forget the stress and problems than getting an aromatherapy massage together with your loved one. This will further relax your muscles and release the piled up tension. Massage can improve your overall mood and help you get rid of the neck pain, so that you feel more energized and willing to enjoy life and love. With some nice ambient music, this experience could easily become a habit.

Alternative therapies

There are many other therapies that can be found, such as reflexology, lymphatic drainage, shiatsu, hot stones, sweat lodges, chocolate therapy or a tanning session. The important thing is that it is a time for you to relax, get away from everything in the outside world for a while and thus get ready to face a new day together. Your body and your mind will thank you.

Hot tub joy

Why not end this perfect day in a hot tub, drinking wine and eating chocolate? Now that everything is over and the only thing left for you is to enjoy yourselves in the warm water, take this chance to talk about everything that comes to mind. You might even get to know your partner more. Being relaxed and pampered that much could still be something new for him, but the ‘Zen’ feeling is definitely something that he would like to try and experience again.

There is nothing more romantic than a spa session with your partner. Together, you can get that necessary boost of energy that was perhaps lacking before while thoroughly taking care of your skin and muscles. More than ever, you and your man will feel happy, nourished and in love.