Thank you for saying out loud what so many are afraid to say. Not everyone is a winner at everything. As humans we make mistakes. We fall short. We don’t win.
That doesn’t mean if you’re not the winner that you’re the loser. You’re just not the winner. So pull up your big boy pants and deal with it.
The culture of “everyone’s a winner” is politically incorrect pablum for those who don’t rather not have the “try harder” conversation. Just saying.