First if all, let me address “white women married to black men don’t experience racism” remark. As a white woman married to a very dark skin man, I have absolutely experienced racism first hand from BOTH white and black women, even from men. Men are a lot more physical and meaner than women, but women are notorious for their dirty looks or more than usual heavy flirting with my black husband. This feels really weird to be writing “black” and “white”. lol. My husband and I do not refer to each other this way. More like we use the terms “Babe” and “Love”. Anyway, just today I experienced racism as my “loving” mother-in-law in these clear words told me “Yes, I am racist. Go back where you come from. I believe my son should have stuck with his own race.” Yes, those were her words. I work in healthcare and am in med school on the dean’s list so I do not dress hip hop or call myself black. That is weird sounding and immature. I am a professional woman who is in love and married to a wonderful and successful man who has changed me for the better and who I have a beautiful little girl with. That is who I am. I pray that you find peace in your heart soon and turn all that anger and hatred around and become a better person yourself. Maybe even find someone who YOU love no matter what color their skin says they are, and that you will find your peace and love for yourself and others.