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Now Accepting Emerging Male Writers: Mutual Terrain Is Open

Tell the Story No One Ever Let You Say — Coming Fall 2025

Jul 9

Now Accepting Emerging Male Writers: Mutual Terrain Is Open

Jul 9

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Dear Men: Should You Be Worried About the Burned Haystack Method?

The popular man filter that’s got women sorting men — should it scare you or save you time?

Jun 14

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Jun 14

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Dear Men: The Mother Wound — Why She Lost Interest After You Opened Up

How the mother wound teaches men to perform love instead of feeling it

Jun 25

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Jun 25

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Sexual Repression and the American Dating Collapse: You Need An Intervention If You Think My Work…

Why Most of My Female Clients Aren’t a Fit for U.S. Men On Any Side of the Political Spectrum

Apr 30

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Apr 30

Why Have I Stopped Roasting Men?

What Changed in My Writing — and What Hasn’t — Since I Started Coaching Men Up Close Instead of Just Calling Them Out From Afar

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What You Actually Deserve Isn’t a Gift Or a Hot Partner — It’s Your Own Negotiated Reality

Why manifesting, praying and mindset aren’t enough if you ignore the messy truth of real relationships.

2d ago

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2d ago

Love Is the Boundary

The counterculture way I learned to love men without performing, collapsing, or calling them out

6d ago

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6d ago

Why Some Women Thrive With Much Younger Men

Age-gap relationships aren’t inherently wrong. But they ask more of you early on. Thoughts on being the older woman.

Jul 9

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Jul 9

Stop Trying to Heal Everyone: The Therapist Trap That’s Killing Your Desire

You don’t need better people. You need to stop managing the ones you already have.

Jul 3

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Jul 3

How to Tell If It’s Narcissism, a Personality Disorder — Or If They’ve Just Never Experienced Love

Can people change? Here’s how to tell.

Jun 30

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Jun 30

Christina Lane

Christina Lane

I write about the messy middle of love & being human. Embodiment coach. Creator of Radiance + Embodied. Editor of Mutual Terrain. www.christinalanecoaching.com

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