Feminism is and has always been about choice. There are no feminists who think women/men should stay home, or have a career. We think a full human being has a choice, either way. Think of Neil deGrasse Tyson or The Obamas, all good feminists. The idea that feminism excludes is incorrect. Equality appreciates natural differences, & does not say we’re all alike. Equality says: we are diverse, we are together, we are free to choose.