Well, the entire thing seems to be coming from a perspective I am unfamiliar with built on assumptions I am ignorant of. Perhaps that simply means I am not the intended audience.
But I think there’s ‘honor’ and there’s ‘behaving honorably’. I’m all in favor of the latter. It’s the externalizations of the former that entwined uncomfortably with some toxic aspects of masculinity.
Do right because it’s right, not because you will be seen to be doing right. I believe that’s the context you were initially responding to. I’m not sure where you got ‘guys have no value’ out of that.
(edited to fix a misquote)