I can agree with this article and admire you as a husband and foster parent, but I can’t let you get by with judging others the way Hawkins has. It’s not for us to say whether somebody else cannot or will not. We don’t know other people’s physical or mental health, backgrounds or burdens. We can’t know what they are ALREADY overcoming, to do as well as they are. Judging in this way is foolish and short-sighted, every single time.