The Worst Personality Type
So is this really happening? Am I writing? and that too for the Internet? wow, someone pinch me. I am not a writer, and nor am I a “social media” star. I am actually an ENFJ. If you have heard about the Myers Briggs test, you would know what I am talking about. I am basically Extroverted, Intuitive, Feeling and Judging. Basically means being a contradiction. When I took the test, the child and youth worker told me that this is the worst personality type to have. I asked her why? she said because you never truly know what you want, you are smack in the middle of the spectrum. I walked out thinking she was absurd for saying such a thing in the first place, and secondly I had just found one of the clues in discovering myself.
An ENFJ is basically someone that can stay home for a week and get bored enough to randomly want to go crash a wedding. I hang out with friends and family and loved ones when “I feel like it.” You wont believe the amount of “white space” I have in my planner. I have learnt to say “no” and only do what I truly feel like doing. The Magic of not giving a fuck is actually a great read, you should give it a shot! :)
I hate too many phone calls, and I hate not enough. I will get lonely after a week of staying home, and I will want to run away from home just to get a break. I have learnt that this is not the worst personality type to have, this is the BEST personality type for ME. I love being different, and I love not being a “social norm” or following the “status quo.” God didn’t create me for that… sorry no thanks.
I am also a Scorpio rising, Libra sun and Pisces moon. For those that know anything about Astrology, or have any interest in it, would know that this is quite a complex placement. I love it! The more I learn about myself, the easier it is for me to follow my heart and not be sorry for who I am, and for how people think I should live, act or be. I am done being a “people pleaser,” and I am enjoying pleasing myself. (sorry if that sounds dirty) I am not a dirty minded person, but I know many people out there are. It’s actually a pretty funny and cool thing to be that way :)
Now I must go have some Tea, for my daily Tea Time with family. I shall join them in one of their favorite Indian soap operas!
I barely watch TV anymore, so I must enjoy this “family time” that is super limited and a Blessing ❤ xoxo