Do you count those endless Nights of Jealousy?

“Hey Mark! Look at that babe standing across the street near that beer shop. I used to make out with her. She generally gets fumed when she sees me because of Carol.” Johnny.

“Ya! I can see some smoke over her head.” Markie.

“ That’s the exhaust of truck smoking out behind her.” Johnny.

“hahahahahaha.” Mark

Anyway, jokes apart. What do you think about jealousy? How do you take it? Well, it depends how strongly someone giving you a shot and how third person acts between you two.

Jealousy is a giant monster which causes slow death of your soul by setting your instincts ablaze to hell. You can’t compare it with hypnotism which lasts for a short period. It lasts for years and sometimes until you die. But once your mind is being encapsulated by jealousy, you can’t imagine how devastating it could be. It is a threat which comes with a third person in your relationship.

I could recall my time when I used to play badminton with my friends. I often used to play badminton with two of my friends in a nearby sports club after my tuitions. We could barely able to stand because of heavy crowd and there was only one court. As we continued to come there we noticed three girls started coming to the club. Then what? We booked all in our minds.

Once the situation was, we were standing on the opposite sides of the court and when the court vacated, every quarter of the court was acquired by me and my friend and other half by two of those girls. I was standing with the same girl who had long hair and my friend with that short heighted girl. We smiled and watched each other for a second with the game continued.

Things were going well and they were the reason we started coming frequently. We became good friends, shared our interest and started having fun. One day I was strolling with my school friend on a road I have rarely been to and suddenly someone called me from behind the bushes on one of the houses and guess what. That was that girl who shared the badminton court with me. We had a word for a while and then I left for home.

Now here came a different turn when I come to know about the short height girl who liked me and was the best friend of that girl I liked first. One day she told me how she felt for me. They didn’t tell each other about this “mishap”.

One day I felt that I should tell my feelings about her. Then I called her and told everything about it. She was half astonished and half happy. The situation was kind of awkward. The next day she told everything about this thing to her friend who also liked me. And one of the worst moments of life is when you and your friend like the same thing and both don’t want to let it go. That was a volcano erupted at wrong place which caused personal grudges between them. They began to hate each other in all standards and ultimately started disliking each other. Then another volcano had yet to blow. One of my friends who used to come and play with me liked that same girl I liked first. One day he came to me after knowing this and bluntly warned in my face not to talk to that girl. We fought after that and ended up our 6-year old friendship. That was one of the worst things that ever happened to me.

Waking Of Jealousy

You can’t imagine how badly people fall into character over small things and start hating you even when you don’t have any business to do with them. Jealousy changes a bright day into a night of hell. It’s a negative habit that sneaks in your behavior without knocking the door of your mind. These things arise when you are afraid of your partner sleeping with someone and ready to mingle with that person. One of the core reasons that clarify some part is “doubt”. That’s just a highway to hell in a relationship. It causes your mind to over-think and make you exaggerate the situation.

Fight against Jealousy

To eradicate the kingdom of jealousy in your mind you have to be positive in your approach. Don’t give a damn about what your partner does. Trust your partner and make them feel so comfortable that you will never part away. Don’t think negative for anyone around you, even for your enemies. The negative impulse of jealousy does not cause harm to that person you hate. It harms you first causing problems in all your body from the inside and outside.

Always wear good clothes, eat good food, go to good places and have fun with your partner with a trust of never letting go and understanding. Always be positive and love yourself first, then only you can love your partner.

Once a wise man (Paulo Coelho) said “Never hate jealous people because they think you are better than them.”

The reason behing introducing a story first is to make you realize how the circumstances affect relationship. We all become victim of the circumstances, but we have to be people with elaborated open mind. The more we are studying, the short we are falling in actual knowledge. Knowledge which leads to becoming of better human being. Being a better human does not mean being good to others, but it is for your own good.

As per the present studies, it is found that 70% of human illness is because of the state of mind of the person. If we hold too much of negativity in ourselves it is not only going to effect the relationship and happiness, but our future too. So, change the way, you think for any relationship and it will change your life positively.

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