Giving advice is the best thing we can do for our friends who need it. Sometimes we don’t realize how much we love our opinions to be heard by others. Even if others might not need it at the moment.

Do you find yourself giving unsolicited advice?

I am very guilty of it.

Whenever someone close to me messages me to open up, share his or her problems, the first thing in my mind is to think what shall I say next to make him or her feel better?

There’s nothing wrong with that, right? But we must think twice…

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