First of all, if you continue saying “gender equality” it shoes you haven’t understood anything. At all. Feminists don’t want gender equality — we don’t want to rape, oppress, murder, objectify. Secondly, equality and gender are words that contradict themselves. There can never be equality while gender exists, because gender is a system created to promote inequality.
Should men feel guilty for their privilege in male supremacy and what that means to women? Yes.
Should white people feel guilty for male supremacy and all the benefits they get from it? Definitely yes.
You can’t opt out of privilege.