Sorry for such extravagant use of the highlighter, but a lot of this hit home.
I try really hard to treat each person I meet as an individual. They are all unique and if we are simpatico, great. If not, I go away and try to figure out why. I don’t expect to like every one equally because we are all different. But everyone deserves a chance. They may never get a second based on what I determine caused us to not get along, but I will think about it first.