This is an interesting take on this subject. I’ve been sort of trying to write a blog post myself about how men aren’t just witnesses to violence but as we grow we are actually expected to be violent, and we’re supposed to be good at it. In an odd way, society expects men to not be violent but also to be the best at violence. It’s a theory in the works anyway. Thanks for the article. I enjoyed the read and I think re-framing the conversation to be more about who’s committing the violence could be effective.