Ask yourself, honestly: How much energy do you dedicate to things that don’t really matter? Or things you think you “should” do, rather than those you actually want to?
We don’t like closing chapters of our lives where strong emotional feelings have been present. Part of this is a fear of the unknown. Part of it is simply a resistance to change.
… answer was right in front of me, yet I was blind to see that reuniting with an old flame or friend would only produce pain if rekindled. It took me years of my life, at various different times, to come to grips with letting past girlfr…