Marie, it is a simple matter to settle. Its called chromosomes. A simple chromosone test determines what GENDER you are. NOT your feelings or your warped mind. You are either male or female. Has always been that way and always will be. And, as for meds whatever you and your delusional “friends” are smoking does not change science. You do remember science don’t you? Not the phony make it up as you go “global warming hoax” or delusional “transgender” garbage. Science. X or Y chromosomes.