The Cool Girl trap is real. I fell into it in a strip club when I was 25.
Cara Meverden

You didn’t do anything bad being a Cool Girl.
These guys were going to a strip club and this is not very considerate unless it’s your thing and you answer to the suggestion with a ‘hell yeah let’s rock the strip club’.
They got carried away by the night and put you in an awkward situation, so you were probably in guard. Your colleague made a completely out of the place comment, who knows why. It’s him who must wonder.
It sounds like some women think too much about what we should and should not be doing as and some men think too little about what they should and should not be doing.

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