Fear and Pain — Powerful Messages Series
“When one door closes another opens.”
This is a fact, and even if in those painful and fearful moments when your pain and fear rules, you’ll find hard to see it; it’s crucially important to be aware of its existence. Find it, and all will change for you.
Transcript:
When your dreams vanish, a big objective fails, someone close betrayed you, a major family problem took over, or you’ve just lost money — you’re facing a crucial point.
But keep in mind!
Each hit your life gives you hides a gift for your development, as a person. It’s not only about the gained life experience, but the fact that when a door closes another, bigger one, opens somewhere; or a new life perspective is about to enter in your life — as long as you accept it, search for it and let it in.
There is no growth without an effort, pain or exit from the comfort zone. No person you admire today haven’t reached what they have while doing nothing and without going through crucial, painful moments, which left a mark.
The difference between those who success has nothing to do with luck, or a family who apparently has it all, nor money. The difference comes from the way these people handled those hard moments in their lives. Courage is not the absence of fear but the triumph over it, as Mandela said. All people are suffering and have fears. But those who do something with their lives are those who accept their humanity and see beyond that moment which stops the rest.
Therefore, keep in mind. If you are in one of those hard moments. You are not alone. You are where every single person who ever lived once was. And keep this in mind too, it’s essential. Everything passes! Nothing stays the same. Joyful moments pass to let place for others. But same with the pain. It’s a cycle, like the seasons. They always come and go. But only in those difficult moments, you have the real chance to grow in all aspects.
See those moments as opportunities for you and your life. You are here on this Earth for a reason. Don’t you know it? Seek it. The end game is not to be happy or miserable. These are states that are part of your life.
The goal is to fulfill your mission. And when you have a higher goal you are saved at any point, day or night. Because no one will be able to highjack you off your road. That higher mission will be like a lighthouse in those dark nights and also the primary motivator when you feel your batteries are off or your resources vanished. Those are unlimited for someone who knows what he wants and especially why he wants it.
So give yourself a break to suffer, you’re human, but remember that anything wrong happens to you right now is only a tiny part of your way and that beyond this moment it’s a lot more for you. Discover that thing, and you’ll automatically go to the next level.
See you there!
