I completely agree. As a Catholic, I hate when people use the word “blessed.” It is arrogant as you say because people who say are blessed imply that their lives are more special and or important than others. Why would God choose you to bask in the glory while others suffer? Instead of “blessed”, people should be saying that they are fortunate, lucky, grateful, etc. Anyone could be just as hardworking and good as a person who claims to be “blessed” but still be living a rough life. People should really stop using that word because why would God bless you and not others?