May 18, 2020Member-onlyWhite Picket Fences: Racial Housing Segregation in Long Island, New YorkNewlyweds Phillip and Patricia-Flynn Kneer decided to buy a two-bedroom, ranch-style home in Yaphank, a small hamlet in the town of Brookhaven, New York. In 1999, the $70,000 price tag was a deal not to pass up. However, as their family grew, they came to the realization that they needed…Racism15 min read
May 2, 2019Member-onlyDear Men, I Don’t Owe You A ThingDear Men, I don’t owe you a thing simply because I’m a broad, a chick, a girl, a gal, a chica, a lady, a member of the fair sex, a skirt, a pair of tits and ass, borne from Adam’s rib — in other words, a woman. I don’t owe…Feminism4 min read
Mar 31, 2019Member-onlyWhy I’ll Never Be Easier to Love Than a White WomanI’ve mostly ever loved White men, partly due to geographic misfortune. Initially, I never branded my relationships as “interracial.” I was born and raised in Puerto Rico where race was never at the forefront of my mind and racism was never a thorn in my side. While my genes tell…Racism5 min read
Mar 13, 2019Member-onlyWhy I Quit Running for Trustee with Bonelli After Only Two DaysI was very excited to run for Trustee of Valley Stream. Having just finished my doctoral coursework in Organizational Policy and Pay Equity and my fifth year of teaching several business courses at Baruch College, I thought I could put my education and experience to good use. …Education6 min read
Jan 14, 2019Member-onlyThe Politics of Mom-Shaming in the #MeToo EraRecently, Janeane Garofalo dragged Louis CK’s daughters into the #MeToo conversation to elicit sympathy for this self-avowed sexual harasser, “If nothing else…think about how his daughters, who hear all this stuff, feel. Why don’t you leave him alone for them if you’re so women empowering.” …Feminism6 min read
Jan 10, 2019Member-onlyIf You Blame PC Culture, You Might Be a Bad ComicI’m tired of bad comics blaming their bad jokes on PC culture — ”It’s just a joke,” “Don’t you have a sense of humor?,” and the heart-warming, “Get over it, snowflake.” These flaccid excuses to negative feedback are not reserved to the male comics from Long Island, where I reside…Comedy6 min read
Jan 10, 2019Member-onlyWhen Your Idols Fall from Grace, Watch Them Go Splat!I was born and raised in Puerto Rico where stand-up was absent in the public arena. I moved to the mainland for college, and it wasn’t until my senior year that I attended my first stand-up comedy show at Faneuil Hall in Boston. Kevin Nealon was headlining, and he called…Sexual Assault6 min read
Jan 9, 2019Member-onlyWhen You Fight for What’s Right, You’ll Always Win at the End — Just Kidding!I’m stubborn: I believe that men and women should enjoy the same opportunities and be granted the same respect in every area of life. So when I witness or experience sexist attitudes or discriminatory behaviors, I feel injustice — not anger, nor sadness, nor anxiety — I feel the emotion…Feminism6 min read
Jan 6, 2019Member-onlyIf You Blame PC Culture, You Might Be a Bad ComicI’m tired of bad comics blaming their bad jokes on PC culture — ”It’s just a joke,” “Don’t you have a sense of humor?,” and the heart-warming, “Get over it, snowflake.” These flaccid excuses to negative feedback are not reserved to the male comics from Long Island, where I reside…Comedy6 min read
Nov 6, 2018Member-only5 Ways to Treat Women Like the Second-Class Citizens That They Are in Comedy[I will refer to female comics as “female comics” and male comics as “comics” since men shouldn’t sacrifice their status and comfort in the industry just for equal rights, fair treatment, and inclusion — why should they change?] Most women know their place in comedy: they know to keep their…Comedy5 min read